Good for you. I hide my weight from my husband (gained 50 lbs. after 12 yrs. on Abilify). I even will not walk directly next to him when we hike as my shadow looms so much larger than his, but I do admit I have a real fixation in that when he told me 3 yrs. ago that he no longer found me sexually attractive due to my weight gain I did a suicide attempt.

Like when he is watching a football game & they give statistics & say something like he is a "big boy"--he weighs the same as I do (190 lbs.--please keep this a secret!). Yet the player is almost 6 feet tall & I am merely 5' 3".

So to hear the announcer say he is "big" when I weigh about the same is so sad for me & discouraging...

I am definitely NOT football material.