"Nothing is lost, nothing is created, everything is transformed" Antoine Lavoisier

So why i am fretting so much about the things i lost if it is only been transformed that means it is still around just in a different form... so i am attached to forms not reality and transformation upsets me... that is it i do not like change... but it would be foolish to think that i can control or stop change...
The wise thing to do is to embrace change and celebrate it instead of fighting it... that will make life more bearable and enjoyable at times...
At least i can relax more and not worry as much about what will happen tomorrow... the bad will pass and the good will pass away too and that will never stop... change will keep on happened all the time no matter what...
Nothing is lost nothing is created everthing is transformed... wow such an insight... may your soul rest in peace Monsieur Lavoisier