thank you for that link muffy

lot of information there.. i was attracted to this:
SUMMIT COUNTY - Forget the name-calling on the playground, the way of bullying someone today is much more far reaching through photo manipulation, ridiculing text messages and mean MySpace pages.
In other words, along with increased access to technology comes increased cyberbullying - something the schools are working to combat and make parents aware of.
http://www.summitdaily.com/article/2...NEWS/104060086
another thing we who are recovering from MI need to bear in mind:
How Energy Vampires Drain Your Spirit
11 Ways to Protect Yourself From Negative Influences
http://psychology.suite101.com/artic...nergy_vampires