yay 4 u , btw this area of the forum often has tmi, ppl better get used to it or not read this area. I needed clitoroal stimulation as well to orgasm in the past but not always now. The first penetration orgasm was really good it made me wanna scream then i was so relaxed after the orgasm that just wanted to sleep straight away so i can understand why men don't wanna cuddle after sex they prob too sexually exhausted, I don't cry but can get why you felt like it.