I am sorry this has happened to you also. Thank you for sharing this. Men do get abused by women too therapists or not and it is so good to hear you speak up about it. My son was physically/verbally/emotionally abused by his now ex-wife. I've always known it possible but when it happened to my son it became more clear how real it can be and gender, size and strength have nothing to do with it.
Anyway, what ever you decide to do my hope is it helps you to move on, for you deserve to be treated better then this woman has treated you.
lrks