I know how you feel. I had some closer friendships for a while but they got busy with htheir own lives and families. They had closer friendships now with people who have kids their kids ages. Mine are all grown now so I don;t have anything in common. But I tried to get togther for a long time and finally just gave up. I too don't have any friends except my 18 yr old daughter, who is married with and had my first granddaughter. I get sad to think people are so busy with their lives they can't find time for a cup of coffee or a few minutes on the phone. They have their own "clix".