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My boyfriend is Rapid Cycling Bipolar. I knew this from our first date. He was stable and on meds. We have been together for 16 months. In April of this year he bought a house and we moved in together along with 2 of my children( The other is in college)He has three of his own that we have about 40% of the time.Right after he bought the house he stopped going to his Dr and taking meds. He said he didn't need them anymore. Needless to say our relationship is in serious trouble. He is constantly angry for no apparent reason. He has never been a good communicator but before I moved in here he would always bring me flowers and we would talk about everything and nothing. We said this is forever and no matter what we will work it out. Counseling or whatever we need to stay together. He tells me that I am controlling his thoughts and that he cannot be himself with me because I always tell him how to feel or think or act which is NOT true. If he says he has offended me and I say that is not true then that is me controlling his thoughts and how he feels. I have asked him to go to therapy and he refuses to go saying we don't need that. This weekend he told me 1, 2 3( meaning me and my children) to get the F*** out. He doesnt want this anymore, he does not need this anymore, he cant talk to me and thinks he really never could. This was because he told my 12 year old son(screaming at the top of his lungs) That he is sick of his F****** holy than thou attitude. All my son said was that his son broke the brake on his bike so we had to get the part to fix it. I had to beg him to work on this because I feel it is worth it. I have asked him to go back to the dr and he says he will never go again cause he does not need it and will never take another med for his disorder. I think we have said 35 words to each other since Saturday afternoon. His oldest and my oldest heard him screaming at me.What am I suspose to do with this????
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