No, technically he hasn't had a job other than for his parents. He isn't the only person though. You guys are being quick to judge him based on his job history, but nobody is perfect and i don't expect him to be. I just get frustrated with him at times, but i really do think he's a sweet and caring person. He shows me more affection and love than anyone i've ever been with and never stays angry for a long time. He moved here all the way from Wyoming which was a pretty big leap. He has to be willing to change his life around since he already made that change. I did have a talk with him and things have been better with us since. I stressed to him that our relationship will not be able to work out if he doesn't get a job soon. He told me he has like $1,000 in his bank account still and so he wasn't looking for work cuz he hasn't been hurting for money. Also he didn't realize how important this issue was to me so i think i made him realize now. He assured me he'd start looking more for jobs now so hopefully he will find something soon. We are not planning on having any kids so i'm not worried about raising a family. It isn't like we've been living together for a few years. We've only been living together a few months so he hasn't had a fair enough chance yet. I'm not saying that i'm going to wait a few years for him to find a job though. I think he should find something before the end of the year really since he will be looking.