An unequal marriage can be like slogging through mud, when you could be soaring. I don't advocate divorce, but I am experienced at it, and that was typically the reason why. I thought I could soar. As it turned out, I soared a short flight, and am now grounded with disability, wishing for a husband who could make home repairs and do the yard. It's a hard question. But I sense how you are feeling. You will have to grapple with it, and if you decide to leave, you will have pain for a time. Time will eventually lessen this. Perhaps a separation to see how things work would be one way to go. Wishing you All Luck!