i think if you just hold your ground right now Flower... you've asserted your sense of self-hood and individual person and T1 is in a position where, even if only for professional face-saving, needs to validate your place and position on things... take your time and step thru it carefully with new T, they sound very much more supportive of you than T1... in my experience, learning and T, i need to be able to accept whatever truth presents itself in the moment and deal with it in my own place at that time.... later down the path i might discover some new revelation that will at that time affect both my current and future understandings... as long as i prevent becoming the harmer and remain willing to be the student as well as my own individual, i am opened to new discoveries and understandings... whats key is contributing to a safe environment that myself and others will feel comfortable in to explore our honest feelings... i hope this helps and wishing all the best for you