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Old Nov 17, 2009, 10:39 AM
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And with seeing it in this perspective it gives you an option on how to handle it better by realizing that the child is in control when you are being triggered and that you can bring the adult you out more so that she can take control. The adult you can think and problem solve better and can put the emotions in perspective.
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