If u still love your ex you still love him. if he doesn't love you then you need to cry over it a little bit but then move on with your life. u can't dwell on someone who doesn't love u. I kno that sounds hurtful but i'm 14 and i ran away with my 17 year old boyfriend to new jersey. we were going to get married but he saw all the new jersey booty and he bailed and i had to find my own way back. I was so heart broken i spent 7 months in therapy because i thought he loved me as much as i loved him but i was wrong and u have to let things go. I t may hurt but in the end it will be fine.