
Hi All,
Long story short - My BF of 6 years just stopped loving me. There seems to be not reason other than the feelings just aren't there anymore. The is no cause for it - as he says I am wonderful person and I do everything he could have possibly want. We moved in together (bought a house) 7 months ago and I was under the illusion that it was all going great, we both wanted the same things in life. We were friends first before starting our relationship and to be honest we have only had one fight about 4 years ago.. It's just been unconditional love and friendship the whole time. Neither of us tired or wanted to change the other.
He says he's been feeling different for the past 2 months - when it first started he told himself that he was being stupid and tried to just ignore the doubt that was growing...
He finally told me - my world crashed down around me - he feels guilt as he never wanted to hurt me but he has. We went to one counseling session - I guess we were looking for a magic fix... He ended it a few days ago saying that he just feels 'nothing' for me (no love anyway). I am struggling to cope and he is trying to support me in every way to get me through this? Weird I know but he still cares for me and is attracted to me but just doesn't love me.. I can't explain it and neither can he.
I want him back and since we have started the whole seperation thing I'm hoping that time will heal both of us and that with friendship he will realise that he never really stopped loving me.
I'd appreciate any opinions and advice plus anyone who has been in this situation and it has worked out well.
Thanks for listening.