Wouldn't it be nice if you would be able to sort things out for him once you're qualified. My daughter is a Psych major, recently inducted into Psi Chi (I'm beaming of course) but as you know there are issues that a third party must sort out. We just cannot be objective with loved ones. I know he probably made the statement tongue in cheek but if he's not willing to do the work, this situation truly is out of your hands, he's made it for you.