We have been together for almost 4 years and knew he some type of sexual disorder. But he was able to keep this hidden until I started working out of my home.
He had already slow sex down to once a month and moved into his own room and sleeps there most nights...after he would push a button so I will react and he then storms off to his own room, locking the door. I am then left confused on how that happened in 30 sec or less. I had figured out he was excessively masterbating from 11p to 7a. Then 5 weeks ago I realized he is quietly masterbating the the young lesbians that moved into the apartment next door a year ago (when he took his own room).
Because they heard me confront him loudly a few times...they now put on a nightly sound show for him, and webcam maybe involved.
Then I started recalling other simular events over the years.
He denies that he even masterbates....that I am the crazy one.
I'm exhausted ..... I can put in ear plugs...but I can't stop the bed shaking from the girls next door. And get wokeup 3 or 4 times a night at least 20 days of the month.
Does anybody know if this is voyurism?