Been married 20 years. Lived together 5 years before that. Things have been crap for about the last 10. A LOT is missing from our relationship. Like about everything. We basically have nothing in common and live seperate lives. The email thing is quite recent.
Confusing indeed. Not because I think anything particularly romantic about it, but because it's just so nice and because I'm spending so much time on it and liking it.
Thanks for writing, Phoenix47, it's just been hugely on my mind and it's been so long since I've dealt with anything remotely like this that I'm just not sure what to make of it all.