Hi Inner zone! this might be true that your marriage with your husband might be lacking somethIng (that does sound like you guys are barely hanging on), But I also know that when I am hypomanic or mixed, there is no way my man can handle what I want. My appetite for all types of interaction, not just sex, goes off the charts! After a bit he just sort of staggers off, curls into a ball and starts self hypnosis (not actually, but you get hte picture) Just make real sure that you don't chuck your guy for a manic lapse of sense, OK? If you are sure you're level, then that's another matter, your judgement is your own. Good luck!