My only advice is to stay away from him. My abuser is also still around. He was/ is a girls volleyball referee. After my experience he was no longer able to be at the middle school...but now I'm in highschool. He still referees the games there and I had to give up playing and watching because of it. That was the only way for me and it still doesn't make it go away. I had another really ad flashback a couple of nights ago which triggered a panic attack. I posted a poem about it and I will post it here...

I'm so tired. My body is wearing thin.
I can't breath. It's sucking me in.
The dark memory encircles me.
Why can'tit just leave me be.
I start to shake, and want to cry.
Why won't it just let me die.
It pulls me under. It won't let go.
I can't escape. There's to much I know.
It's scaring me. I want to run.
It toys with me. It's haveing fun.
I couldn't run then. I can't run now.
I can't make it go away. I don't know how.
He is still here. The memory lingers on.
Will it ever, forever be gone.
SI helps make it, go away.
But soon it returns, and makes me lay.
Lonely and scared on the inside.
Shaking and gasping, wanting to hide.
Only my death wil end the pain
But untill then, the memory will remain.

I'm betting a lot of people on here can relate to this. I wish I had more advice to give, and if you come up with a solution please let me know.