I have always had a hard time with this -- tend to dissociate it away, both in therapy and in real life. (As someone else mentioned.)

I do not feel comfortable expressing anger with her, or with anyone.

I don't even know when I am angry. In some situations I am aware that I should be angry. But I don't actually feel angry. I think.

I can tell if my feelings are hurt. (I suppose there might be some anger in that.)