I have a marrige that is like riding a roller coaster. Up down Up down get the picture one day he is the man I love, the next day he is some other person I can not even look at or sit in the same room with. I ve been talking to him about it for along time and it always go's back to the same pattern. I try so hard to be attracted to him but for some reason he always seems to say or do the wrong thing and then my mood just goes away. I am at my pick of sexualty desire right know and he just is not making it happen, not sure what else I can do. Sex has never been a big thing to me but like I said something in body is changing and I just cant not seem to get enough.