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Old Nov 19, 2009, 05:33 PM
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You aren't having a genuine relationship with another person if you have to "pretend" when you are around them. That means there is no relationship. As long as you choose to "pretend" around people you will be unhappy and depressed as well as angry. The only way to change things is for you to start getting honest about your thoughts and feelings with others. It's not comfortable but it eventually will get you into honest, real relationships that don't make you feel bad about yourself. I hope your will start taking care of yourself.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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Thanks for this!
FooZe