Its just easier to blame the parent or make the parent feel bad about things when they have a mental illness they assume all mentally ill people act the same with there kids.....I'm sorry while there may be people out there who can be mentall ill and NOT cope with raising kids I beleive there are plenty of people out there with mental illness that with a little help will rasie stronger children for this world. the T have just got to stop blaming and just start start helping parents in healing children.......as a parent with several mental illness I know how easy it is to blame and be convince that your the reason......i also know a lot of T just dont seem to beleaive that a mentally ill parent is telling the truth with out exageration.......i have been several T and I've had to fight threw them trying to convince me I was the problem and that I must be doing some thing wrong or exacgerating the behaviours but over time they have all come to see I was right not 100% right but that I was on the right track and not lieing or exagerating.....I have had my thought defined and tweeked a little but over all my original beleif has not strayed far from the path.......