Neville…
It’s not about her, it’s about you!
The world is full of people who fall short of the glory. We can find them around every corner.
She is wrong, I think we all agree with that, but again I say, it’s not about her. I am only responsible for cleaning up my side of the street. And so are you. It is your stuff you need to focus on, not hers.

You slay me, Neville. You would never have turned her in if she was still your sweetheart, you are taking that action out of spite because she dumped you. And you are parading around the idea of upholding professional standards (a good one) as your total motivation and justification for what you do. We need to look at out true motives, not just the ones we want the world to see.

I don’t care if she gets herself wrung out, she has it coming, but what about you? Do you thing that her getting into trouble with the assorted boards, maybe getting fired will keep you sober?

Again it’s about you. Its about being comfortable inside your own skin. Revenge is a thin blanket pal. It will not make you happy joyous and free.

You will do whatever you do, bur resentments are poison.

Richard