I am so sorry for what you are going through. Why did your husband tell your daughter that? I think your group session is good for you. Maybe you need time off from all of your family. They are not being supportive at all. Can you join any community groups to meet people who are outside of your family? Maybe a book discussion group at the library or something like that. I really think distancing yourself from your family may be helpful. Maybe you could ask your group what they think?