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Old Nov 19, 2009, 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted by singfreejennn View Post
I know how u feel, I have been going through the same thing myself, but with mine its a roller coaster ride one day his listen and the man I marrried the next he is a stranger I can nit even be in the same room with. But back to your answer I think with women we what till the last straw and then when do when we have no other chioce the one thing I can say is he will not change so dont even try. If anything you have to change the way you view the marriage and go from there.
Last night and today were miserable for me. I tried to talk with him, but he was extremely irritable and didn't want to talk. How can I communicate if he won't listen? I saw a therapist today and she said "do you still love him?" I answered yes, but now that I'm thinking about it, maybe not. It's hard to give unconditional love. I don't even like myself, so how could I love someone else? I'm so messed up.
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