Hmmm if you can look at your scars and just accept them ... say Oh I just %&#)! up again and move on...I guess then many of us should be able to stop look at our lives and say well it seems so $@*%&!!'D up....but I should accept it and move on. Problem solved.

I guess it should apply there too?

I'm far from being a weak person, but this is something that tortures me or I obviously would never be hear posting how awful and disturbed I feel about it.

It doesn't work like that for me..and I would guess for many others that si it probably might not either.

Maybe it does for you Psyclox, but when I look at my scars it's a constant reminder of something that has control over me. Something I have to try to get control over every day and manage that's what I have to accept ...not something I can "move on" from. It's a part of me and always will be.

Just my opinion...for me.