Hi Amanda,
I feel your pain, I was on line dating after my divorce for a year before I gave up, too exhausting. I gave myself a break and went back on and met my husband in 2005, who lived 1 mile away from me! We are very very happy. There are successes on line and also some bad bad dates. I was feeling very unsure about myself which isnt what it should be about. I was also set up with some nice people thru friends. If you put yourself out there, something will happen, hang in there and keep the faith! Be happy with yourself and it will show! Have a great weekend!