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Old Nov 20, 2009, 01:33 PM
imapatient imapatient is offline
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It sounds weird to me; I would feel uncomfortable. It sounds like an inappropriate dual-relationship. I wouldn't do it; no way. I think, however, he has good intentions. I agree with what someone said that he's trying to help you financially and that he wants to do it to help you be able to afford moving out.

I'd start off telling him "It makes me feel uncomfortable. It expands our relationship into a non-therapy realm; it becomes a two-level dimension situation. I'm very concerned about it harming the therapy we're doing, which is my highest priority.”

Then I'm sure you'll get into what his thinking behind it is
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