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Old Nov 20, 2009, 04:23 PM
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My boyfriend is having issues with anxiety right now. It started a few weeks ago. It seems to consume him and sometimes his anxiety is all he has on his mind. I give my support, and I love him. But it just sucks. We haven't had sex yet and we don't go on road trips because of the way he is feeling. It's still new, we've only been together for 2 months. So I guess I just wanna do fun things with him and stuff. I also have anxiety issues, but unlike him, I am doing really well right now. His family and I have been urging him to see a therapist and he finally made an appt. to see someone. I'm really happy that he's getting help. My complaint is that I wish we could do more fun things together. I don't mind not making love yet, but I just wish we could plan fun things to do. But when I say : would you like to "enter fun thing here" this weekend? He says "I'll have to see how I'm feeling." I just feel crushed. Maybe I need to create my own life and happiness apart from him and quit focusing on what he can't do w/ me? Thanks for listening. support and suggestions are appreciated.