I used to be that guy, hell i know of several chicks back then that got in trouble for hanging out past or being where they wernt suppose to be.

However i say not all of us males were sex freaks and what have you, back then sure i had ranging hormones but having a good time wasnt always trouble for me. Sure i smoked weed sometimes and smoked ciggs i wasnt a trouble maker. When i told a girl i cared for her it was in honesty.

Sometimes i would meet a girl at a keg party and we would kling together all night, she would be a year or so younger and you could tell this was one of her first times or she didnt know anyone. I would take her off and we would hang outside the party to be alone.

While everyone thinks we were up to no good, we would be just talking and things. I ALWAYS hated it when people said ohh you did her or your up to no good and what have you. While the crowd i hung out with wasnt exactly bad .. they didnt have respect for me.

I think this is the biggest issue i had back then people didnt respect me, perents and kids alike always thought when i was doing something i was doing something bad. Man i used to get so angry about that. Just cause im talking to this girl outside the party alone doesnt mean im up to no good or down her pants.

Im now 32 and some of the girls i talked to back then im still really good friends with, im not saying all males are bad but im not saying all males are good. I just wish sometimes there was a little more respect so that maybe people could trust a little more. You can be alone and do together without being "naughty" .. however if i make it to when my 13yr old stepdaughter is a teen will i still believe that LOL