Not sure if this is the right place to post...I've been married to a bipolar legally for 6 years now seperated almost 4 yes together 3 before married so 5 and a half together almost 4 now apart (total 9) neither of us has filed for divorce he has now had a girlfriend a year living with him about 4 months now .Claims we will never be together again but when I don't call him for a couple months I get a call about something and he sounds (can tell by his tone in his voice like he's happy to hear my voice).
He put me through alot of ups and downs and my self esteem presently beyond feeling repairable and I still love him deeply we had a long talk a couple months back when i told him this he said he knows why because he loved me that much too but shut the switch off whatever that means . He left me for no good reason other than a disagreement with my adult son.We never fought over money,sex,etc.we were very compatible and supposedly after a couple years or so he fell out of love with me and after 3 years our physical relationship he stopped and he decided to meet someone else on the "internet"and go full force into a relationship.
Sorry for the long post I am asking anyone here with BP do you think he is or could come back to me ?still loves me?or fall back in love me?I always stood by him even through all this,never got angry with him,I would ask him to try and put himself in my shoes(my son was diagnosed with cancer when he left,not the one he had an argument with)I have tried to go on but can't something feels like he still loves me or maybe I am the one who is going off the deep end ...my psychologist can't even figure him out ..