Life throows me out of sinc sometimes ... like I say I do worry about others, if I've done something to cause hurt. Well, I've had an opinion this week which differed from anothers, we're all allowed opinions right? If we care about one another we respect each others opinions? Is that the way it should be? I'm trying so hard to be a good person. If I worry that something is doing harm I will try to do something about it. So I did. Then because another disagreed with my opinion and what I did it seemed to me that that person was not pleased and (this may be in my head) did something to make me feel sad .... if you care about others why would you want to make them sad? It is the way of the world that people will not always agree with each other, but that is no excuse to be spiteful .... I'm struggling with this issue, because I don't like to think that this person thinks I'm being personal. I'm sorry if this makes no sense, I do have a way of complicating what I'm trying to say ..... Ophelia.