I'm not even aware I do it?
Peep's 'pinions welcomed....lol.
Thankies......
Shangrala

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We don't, not really... its like an inbuild reaction we have. There is an old saying better the devil ya know, then the devil ya don't.
<small smile>
I guess it all comes down to not believing our own worth.
But even knowning that doesn't really help at times.
It seems like its 2 steps forwards and three steps back.
Anyways don't give up, you're not alone.
Hugs... HazyDaisy