Thank you, January. You're right, it does hurt. I'm so angry at her family & even at her. I wonder what was said when she & her daughter talked. I wonder if she told her (or another family member) that she enjoys my visits, calls, & cards & they perhaps didn't listen, or if she said nothing. Another thing that bothers me is that she's okay about it! I can't help but wonder if she's even been lying to me this whole time we've been friends. Perhaps, & hopefully not, but I still can't help but think & worry about it.

I believe I will email my former boss & tell her even though I've not heard from her when I checked to see if I could come Dec. 19th, that I plan not to come see her or even keep in touch anymore. I won't say why. I'm too uncomfortable to go there because I'm uncomfortable being around my now ex "adopted Grandma"/friend, & even the others there who know we were friends.