It's never good to have a conversation when a man is upset. In my experience with this, it starts into a arguement. I would tell him that you need to have a serious conversation with him. When you talk to him say "I", when you say "YOU" they think that us women are blaming them, when we arent really. I would say to him, I feel like I'm not getting my needs meet. Then explain, I need to feel your love, than give him examples of what you need. Tell him too, that if there isn't some kind of a change, then you might need to end the relationship. Hope this helps.