my new phycologist disagrees at this stage with my bpd diagnoises from my old phycologist for party the same reason I do.....that being that medication is changing the behaviours that once apeared to be bpd. That because i ruined my friendships due to OCD reactions the main BPD symptoms are not BPD symtoms at all.....If I did have OCD I would not have ruined my friendship. So I'm pleased with his oppinion at this stage we will see how things go as he see and hears more of my issues.....My last pyhcologist said it takes year of therapy and group therapy to change BPD behaviours and my medication alone is taking away the issues that make it hard for me to make and keep friends.....I've never had a problem maintaining my main relationship that being the one with my partner and he does by means put up me he lets me know when I over the top or over reacting lol....vice versa I let him know when he not being nice ect.....only time will tell....