I understand what you are saying, and it is frustrating to see people who are suffering, especially when it seems that it is because of their own refusal to receive help. Please try to remember, however that everyone recovers in his/her own way and have to experience things through his/her own filter. Try to remember that you are primarily responsible for your own recovery and although you feel frustrated by others, that they are doing what they can to help themselves. You aren't responsible for helping anyone else recover. Work on yourself, and you will be more satisfied in your own life. People will naturally be drawn to you and then when you share your own story, you may inspire someone to work harder on his/her recovery. That is more powerful for you and them than wasting time and energy on judgement of other people.