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I've asked him to go to marriage counseling and he said no. We barely talk, never spend time together and just seem to "live" with each other.
I've been telling him that we need to do something about our relationship. He just shrugs his shoulders and says nothings wrong.
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Gingerkat's original post speaks of ongoing problems in the marriage. These problems requires a response from both parties. So far, apparently H is unwilling to provide one. It is not gingerkat's responsibility to try to fix the marriage on her own.
I agree with Tishie and ChipmunkGal's advice to see a marriage counselor on her own (since H won't go with her). That counselor can help her sort out the situation and what if anything to do next.
With regard to gingerkat's self-esteem: It may well be that the marriage itself is a main source of her low self-esteem. A counselor can help her figure that out.