Peppermint Patty, thanks for the advice. I'm not at that point and hopefully never will be, but I see where you are coming from. Thanks for the support Jerrymichele.

Despite the fact that he is having issues right now, I am happy with him. I think we are together for a reason and I love him. Today he came over to my house for pizza with my family and that was nice. He went to therapy yesterday and today and I notice a positive change in him. He has a positive attitude. I still don't understand why he obsesses about the negative.. but he's going to talk about it in therapy tomorrow. I am confident he will get better and learn ways to cope.