Um i do not know if anyone has noticed this but there is no dialog going on in this thread. No true EXCHANGE of ideas...feel like you are talking to a wall. Not one responder has even been acknowledged execept in the most superficial answer to a factual question. What do we know about the poster other than what she wants us to know. Ask yourselves...if you were a member of her group and you read this thread would you freely open your emotional selves up to the critisism and preaching that has become clearly evident here. Or would you take a self preservation stance and protect yourselves? I would run screaming from the room. I am done providing narcissistic supply to this poster.