Tomi,

Maybe it's because you were the one who got me started thinking about the terminology, so I replied to your message. I intended for my tone to be supportive of what you had said, but I did worry that you might feel like I was arguing or accusing you of being argumentative, even though all I intended was to input my thoughts that were sparked by the discussion.

As usual, this thread is bringing up some deep issues and profound observations. It's only to be expected that someone is going to gt a nerve touched now and then. But I think that we do all understand that we're just trying to explore the issues and gain a better understanding of them, and that the last thing any of us want is to hurt anyone else, even if we have disagreements.

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