SAWE- This is really interesting to me. OMG! I have tolerated so much from myself and from my husband. On some level, I knew this or that made me a little uncomfortable- my behaior, his behavior, but since getting back into therapy, these things bother me A LOT. A real lot. I am working on these particular things, but at times I feel like I am feeling my way around in the dark.

Was there silence because you became more aware of your true feelings?

Thimble- I do believe you have made a lot of progress and that there is a lot of life for you to live. Can you GO and have a conversation like that with him? I KNOW, I KNOW you CAN! You know what has worked in the past for me when I have to do something really, really difficult? Bookend with phone calls. Call someone before you go in and then after. Call...someone....ahem.....

You CAN definitely have this conversation with him. So many of us have had hard conversations with T and not even looked him in the eye, just talked. What do you think?