Yeah I agree DBT is often the best treatment for BPD. Although it can be hard to afford without insurance. Most therapist aren't equipt with the knowledge of how to treat BPD. If you could find a specialist in your area that would be a great thing. I have a center in my area but without insurance i can not participate because of the cost. So I'm limited to walmart $4 prescription list,taking Paxil and Xanax. It helps a bit but like you said its a "personality disorder".