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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge
this really resonated with me. I told my T about a certain part of my life that is out of control- she may have known it but not how much till now - and that I had an idea that I might work on it. She said, because it bothers your DH, or because it bothers you?
I said, I guess more because it bothers him - but it never used to bother me at all, until I started seeing you.
The silence was deafening. Neither one of us looked at the other, or moved, or breathed, you could have counted to ten.
I think I finally found evidence of progress. Five seconds before that I would have probably said there was none.
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Blue Moon asked >>
Was there silence because you became more aware of your true feelings?
My silence: I surprised myself by blurting out something that showed there really has been positive change in me, although unrecognized up to now. T's silence: maybe because she wanted that thought to sink in; or maybe she was just saying a silent prayer of thanks that this
difficult client finally got on the right track, if only for a second
