(((((Kaika)))))) The sad thing about people like that is that even if you get pushed over the edge, they will NEVER understand their role in that. You'll be the only one hurt. Sorry this is such a rough time, and I hope that you are able to pass through thanksgisving unscathed. The we can all be truly thankfull. Let us know as soon as you can how it went, OK? And that sucks about the computer Hugs.