If your most important goal is being a good mother to your daughter, then do that. Keep your eye on what's best for you and your daughter. Let your husband make his own mistakes and decisions. Go to counseling by yourself, or, better yet, with your daughter. Keep working toward a goal of becoming financially independent of him. Give up the idea of him ever changing. When you stop trying to change him and just take care of yourself and your daughter, the miracle will happen - in one form or another.
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