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Old Nov 24, 2009, 04:57 PM
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If your most important goal is being a good mother to your daughter, then do that. Keep your eye on what's best for you and your daughter. Let your husband make his own mistakes and decisions. Go to counseling by yourself, or, better yet, with your daughter. Keep working toward a goal of becoming financially independent of him. Give up the idea of him ever changing. When you stop trying to change him and just take care of yourself and your daughter, the miracle will happen - in one form or another.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
Thanks for this!
Catherine2