I can relate to this alot. I don't call my sister that much, she always want's to "email". She can never pick up the phone and ask me how I'm doing. It seems she doesn't want to hear my problems, would I ever act this way towards her, no I wouldn't because I'm not like that. Sometimes all we need is an ear. That doesn't cost anything. We don't get along, we really were never close. Everytime we've talked on the phone, it leads to an argument over something. I don't tell her how to live her life, and she shouldn't tell me how to live mine. Every year around this time, it's awful for me. Nobody comes to visit here, they're 8 hours away, it was always me travelling there when I was married. I just wish she could be more supportive of me and what I'm going through, instead of acting like everything that's happened to me is somewhat my fault. Then they wonder why I have an attitude with them or don't want to call her. Has anyone felt like this either?
Deborah
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