I would get a hold of the shelter again. You can also go to the Salvation Army, they would be able to direct you in the right place.I would also have a talk with your boss asking her if you can come back after you get your situation under control. I think that if you explain the situation with the shelter, they will let you come. Besides that, you would have a bed to sleep in instead of a car. If you need some cash ask the guy your seeing if he will loan you some money. Keep posting. There are places in the community that will help you, but you need to go find them.