Thank you for the support

In response to one reply No he's not cheating on me. We are honest enough with each other that if it was that he would have told me not to mention the fact that we did try couples counselling at the start.

I will get the house when everything is settled - It was my money that we used to buy it in the first place, there is not dispute.

I have a therapist that I am seeing on the 2nd of December (sooo far away) and at this stage Mark is willing to come with me. Not to try and save the relationship but to learn how to be friends again I guess.

2 months does seems like a short time to make a life changing decision. I wanted to keep trying (hence sleeping together, I was hoping that the love wasn't gone and that passion and fire would spark something). He says that he just feels "nothing" when it comes to loving me. I don't think that there are any answers right now but later down the track maybe one or both of us will figure out what it is.

I've started to realise a few things about myself and he says this has made him learn a few lessons too... I just don't know what they are.

I am hoping that the therapy (fingers crossed he will still attend) will help us come to terms with what happened, that there is nothing that can change it but help us become 'friends' eventually.