I don't understand what you mean by that. Are you saying that no one here on this forum has ever called T asking for help to prevent SI? I guess I wasn't very clear in my post. It's part of DBT therapy, where you learn skills to use instead of self harm. It has helped me. I was trying to say there are other ways to get attention without hurting yourself. There's no shame in wanting or needing attention. Hope this makes sense.